Why ADHD Motivation Starts With Emotion
- Eliza Barach
- 4 days ago
- 4 min read
As ADHDers, we often rely on numbers and logical reasoning to convince ourselves to make changes.
"Exercise reduces heart disease risk by 30%."
"Saving $100 monthly adds up to $36,000 in 30 years."
The reality is that knowing something is beneficial intellectually doesn't automatically translate into taking action. This gap sits at the core of ADHD motivation; the disconnect between knowledge and behavior affects everyone, but it's particularly pronounced for us since we are emotional and intuitive thinkers.
And that's why when we stop relying solely on intellectual drivers and combine them with emotional ones, we are able to accomplish incredible outcomes.
What the Brain Tells Us About Emotion and ADHD Motivation
We didn't choose to be emotional, intuitive thinkers. The "Why" circuit, in the brain, also known as "the hot circuit", serves as the arbiter of our choices balancing our emotions and cognition when making decisions. This circuit plays a central role in ADHD motivation, determining what feels compelling enough to act on and doesn't work as seamlessly in ADHD brains as it does in neurotypical ones (Shaw et al., 2014).
Now you might be able to see why:
Our brains dramatically discount future rewards due to temporal discounting—tomorrow's benefits feel virtually worthless compared to today's experience
Reward/punishment systems backfire because our perception of what's rewarding fluctuates drastically based on our emotional state
The immediate emotional experience typically overpowers even the most carefully constructed logical plans
Tasks without emotional significance simply don't register as priorities in our brain’s hierarchy of importance
Together, these patterns explain why ADHD motivation weakens when tasks lack emotional immediacy.
Knowledge Is Power: Flipping The Deficit On Its Head
ADHDers are emotionally driven beings; we're feelers at heart, and research backs this up. In fact, ADHDers tend to score higher on measures of sensory processing sensitivity (Schippers et al., 2024).
This heightened sense of awareness often manifests as a greater tendency for introspective thought, feeling things more deeply and intensely (hello hot circuit), as well as an ability to detect subtle patterns and pick up on emotional undercurrents. In this very study, this trait was framed as a strength... so instead of fighting our tendency for emotional intensity, what if we leveraged it for deep engagement and motivation?
Consider these contrasting approaches:
Logical approach: Exercise 30 minutes daily to reduce heart disease risk by 40% and extend your lifespan by 5 years.
Emotional approach: I will walk each day so I can get 30 minutes of creative ideation time. This rush of complex thought and problem solving while walking by rolling hills is unlike anything else. Plus, I return home feeling more settled and energized—and we know from research that walking promotes creativity (Oppezzo & Schwartz, 2014) and improves mental agility (Rassovsky & Alfassi, 2019).
When we forge a genuine emotional connection to data, a task, or a goal, we can suddenly activate with incredible intensity, creativity, and perseverance.
Real-World Examples of Strength-Based Emotional Thinking
Successful people with ADHD lean into their emotional and intuitive thinking while building guardrails around it to keep it as a strength. Their emotional connection to their work provides the intrinsic motivation that external rewards never could... we're not the people who can only do it for the money or the "numbers"... there has to be more to it:
The entrepreneur who transforms a personal frustration into a thriving business—not because market analysis suggested it would be profitable, but because solving that problem feels deeply meaningful (and likely extremely interesting)
The researcher whose obsession with a specific question sustains them through years of painstaking work—fueled by curiosity and personal meaning rather than external validation or external grant funding
The difference between struggling and thriving with ADHD can hinge on whether we've found ways to engage our emotional brain in service of our goals.
How to Apply This as an ADHDer or Practitioner
For ADHDers: Feel First, Metrics Second
Create emotional connections to tasks: Ask yourself, "How will completing this make me feel?", “What’s actually in it for me?” before considering the logical benefits.
Double down on dopamine production: If you feel connected to doing something and then find information that validates the benefits of doing that thing, you create a dopamine-boosting feedback loop that strengthens your motivation (Schwartenbeck et al., 2016).
Example - Walking for creativity: I walk because it makes me feel creative and mentally clear. When I discovered research confirming walking boosts creativity, that knowledge amplified my motivation to continue.
For Practitioners: Connect Assessments to Emotions, Not Just Numbers
Make it personal: A score of 20/20 confirming severe ADHD? They already know that intellectually. What they need is understanding how addressing specific symptoms will change how they feel day-to-day and why that actually matters to them (not society).
Uncover emotional drivers: Help your client identify their core emotional motivation—the real answer to "why the hell even make a change?" This emotional anchor creates greater motivation that logic alone cannot provide.
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References
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Oppezzo, M., & Schwartz, D. L. (2014). Give your ideas some legs: The positive effect of walking on creative thinking. Journal of Experimental Psychology: Learning, Memory, and Cognition, 40(4), 1142–1152.
Rassovsky, Y., & Alfassi, T. (2019). Attention improves during physical exercise in individuals with ADHD. Frontiers in Psychology, 9, 2747.
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